Count me amazed, Robert, at your ability to stay focused amid the firestorms that are constantly bombarding you and your family.
I can't remember whose eulogy pointed this out about our 39th President yesterday, but he put things in perspective when he pointed out that aside from Jimmy Carter's four years as Governor and four years as President, that left 92 years of his life to account for. A life in service to all the people across the globe, that's who he was.
Someone reminded me of Timothy Snyder's Lesson #18 for fighting tyranny: Be calm when the unthinkable arrives. For that and more, we can count on Robert! Incoming administration, not so much. But we will stay calm and, as Mister Rogers advised, "Look for the helpers." Our local communities are filled with them.
His grandson Jason said that. His eulogy was so special, his love for his grandparents so evident. Jason is a wonderful speaker and did his Paw Paw proud!
Jason Carter's remarks about his grandfather were inspiring. He is an excellent speaker! In fact, I thought all the speakers were terrific. I loved that Steve Ford and Ted Mondale read so well the eulogies their fathers had prepared years ago. But I truly felt Jason was the most heartfelt in its delivery. It was a beautiful service! (I'm wondering if our incoming president was even taking in all the wonderful words about integrity, honesty, compassion, or the importance of each individual--and the gross inequality of wealth--I doubt he was listening).
I'm glad to hear all these comments. I watched the funeral in Plains but have not yet watched the service you are all commenting on. I appreciate the link. Thanks.
I heard that Gerald Ford’s son spoke a the funeral as well. Apparently while Carter and Ford had a most unpleasant presidential campaign, they became fast friends and agreed to eulogize the other should that person pass first. This was an era of most respectable and respectful people who were President (save for Nixon), now sadly lost because of the incoming person who could never, ever utter a kind word towards another president. Except himself.
In case Robert's dramatic sunset photo of a Los Angeles smoke plume causes any worry, the photo is of one of the newer fires, the Kenneth Fire, which was about 20 miles away, had winds blowing south (not east toward Robert's house), and was relatively quickly prevented from damaging nearby residences. (I drove to a high point in the area and viewed 3 major fires: Palisades, Eaton, and Kenneth.)
World Central Kitchen and the Red Cross are helping firefighters and residents.
The devastation is horrible for so many and distressful for all of us.
I am deeply upset by Fetterman’s words and actions. I donated more than I usually do to candidates during his campaign, I was overjoyed by his success, and I have a small bumper sticker of his on my car. AND I’M A LIFE-LONG RESIDENT OF NEW YORK. I need now to wait for warmer weather to remove it. It is a small, round sticker, so I was able to use a black Sharpie and eradicate the text. What a waste.
Be well all. Wash your hands to keep the Norovirus away. If you have a backyard bird feeder, wash your hands just as thoroughly.
Very disappointed in John Fetterman, whose performative difference from "normal" politicians and renegade attitudes shadowed forth a kind of arrogance that we are know seeing attractive to Trump and Republicans. His advice to "stop freaking out" is standard macho male dismissiveness, and what we all, whatever our gender identification have been hearing from friends and adversaries since before the election. He seems to be saying, "Well, come down there, Little Missy. Don't get your panties in an uproar. Just let big John talk to the scary man in Mar-a-Lago." Senator Fetterman is punching above his weight against Trump who has had years of conning saps like Fetterman is showing himself to be. Let's let him know that WE take Trump seriously and our opposition and resistance is not an emotional weakness but a considered response to a threat to our country and the people of Pennsylvania and he better get used to that and adjust his thinking once he's seen the inside of the palace.
Love your words here, Patrick. As an American female, I am so very often told just that--not to "get my panties in an uproar." It crushes my spirit every time (and then I rally it back up again). ugh.
Perfectly said. He seems pretty arrogant and not too smart. Exactly Trump’s type. PA Dems need to start looking for guy to primary him. Pretty sure most folks who voted Republican last election, will be fed up after they taste the reality of Republicans’ policies.
Beginning to wonder if his state of mind is being affected by his stroke. My father had a what was actually a massive stroke at 74 after he struck his head from a fall, and it affected him in various, often surprising ways. But it was a gradual change that affected his temperament, his thinking, his cognitive abilities, and finally his physical abilities. Ultimately, stroke slowly turned a physically strong and active man into a 2-yr old child mentally and physically by the time of his death 12-yrs later. I heard similar stories by people whose family/friends had strokes when they were much younger than my father. I really hope his doctors are paying attention.
Dad had it easier than the rest of us. It was very gradual, and, oddly, because of the change in his temperament, it was easier to handle than I was afraid it might be. Mom always said she would die first, and my response invariably was "don't you dare" because she had a calmer temperament than Dad. Yet, oddly, the changes were gradual and he could to some extent see it (as he realized he couldn't handle writing checks for the bills), and he accepted it, even realizing he couldn't drive any more. And as I accepted I had an 80-yr-old child, it became much easier to deal with him, and for the most part he was much calmer than he been. Mom, who did die first, grew harder to handle as her health deteriorated and she had some TIA strokes that led to not fun symptoms like "sundowners" - a quaint euphemism for Alzheimer's. She knew she was declining and often reacted violently for the last three years of her life. Strokes are no fun to deal with, rather, their aftereffects aren't fun, and can be unpredictable.
I am familiar with what you write about and every situation has its own particular challenges. My sister and I began saying, “We are constantly readjusting to the ever-changing new normal.” Exhausting and heartbreaking. Take good care.
Exhaustion exists, and it is hard to recover from it - I know as people who've never lived with it can't. When it's over , grieve, move on, but don't make any large immediate changes - that can break you.
Heartbreaking? It depends on how you deal with the changes. You have to accept them, and deal only with the changes. The person you love has entered a new phase in life. Accept it. Didn't matter to me that Dad called me his mother's name, his long dead brother's name or my sister's name. Didn't matter that he didn't remember his wife of 50 years or my name, but remembered our little chihuahua's name when we stepped into the house. Laugh about it as I did (and now fondly remember it 10 years later). Think of it this way - just as the toddler in your house isn't the same as the teenager she grew up to be, your loved one isn't the same as the person you remember when you were younger. Mom was harder as she was her old self for long stretches before turning into an angry and violent woman. But in the end, when her body was shutting down, she turned back into the sweet woman I loved when I was a child.
This happened to me in Arizona several years ago with that turncoat, KrystenKystenKyrstin-whatever-Sinema. She got the endorsement of my local Democrats of the Red Rocks, so I voted for her. I called her office to inquire how she was planning to vote on some issue, identifying myself as a voter/supporter/Democrat. The uneducated person who answered the phone actually said these unintelligible words to me: "I am not legally inclined to answer you." Sinema then turned coat, became an "independent," and voted with MAGA nuts on many issues. She spent her years in the Senate richly feathering her own nest, and was last heard of a month ago touring Europe for no reason, using her campaign war chest and whatever bribes she's been able to extort from corporations in her role (performance?) as a U.S. senator. Now she will retire to wherever MAGA nuts retire and live on her ill-gotten wealth and create more havoc in some sphere yet to be identified. Beware her ilk. Beware Fetterman. And who is that new Democrat who's going around saying RFKJR is "not so bad?" Beware him too.
He's literally this new Senates's Manchin. That said, I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Just like Manchin may have been the only Democrat to win a statewide race in WV in the last 3 decades, Fetterman may be the same type of Democrat that is needed to win in PA for the next decade. We honestly just don't know yet. He seems to still support Biden's agenda and give his vote when necessary for everything. Also him having face time with Trump may make him an important voice and critic going forward. Let's see how it plays out. He may also in the future become a Republican, we genuinely don't know lol, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed, at the end of the day Democrats need to be seen as the adults and be able to win elections. If Fetterman and other Dems do that, I'm willing to hold my nose and put up with some performative stuff as long as their votes and policies align with mine 80% of the time.
Let’s write Fetterman to let him know that he is proving himself naive. That has been a problem for the Democrats for several decades. John, it is a vain jester that served no good end. Please rethink your approach. We and you are dealing with an ego with no boundaries, no moral compass and by now a flawed sense of self-worth above all citizens. He is unrepentant and full throttle evil. 😈 Please, if you meet him do not leave by telling your constituents it was a productive meeting. You’ll surely choke on those words in due time.
I too purchased a sticker from the Fetterman campaign and I never received delivery. Perhaps that was a bit of luck.
But I have a different take on Fetterman's willingness to meet with Trump. JF most certainly knows that Trump will lie about everything. He almost certainly knows that Trump will not deliver on any promises that he makes that might help ameliorate Pennsylvanians lunch bucket issues. But JF also knows that PA went for Trump and dumped Sen. Casey, as centrist a Democrat one could wish for. If PA is to come back into the D column in '26 and/or '28, and if JF himself (or another Dem candidate) is to be elected next time up, then he must be able to talk to those non-MAGA voters in PA and convince them he tried to reach out and do their business with Trump. If Trump turns his back, forgets them, or doesn't follow through on his promises. JF will have good talking points when he reaches out to voters. So, for now, I give JF the benefit of the doubt and even applaud the move as smart politics. We'll need to listen closely to the statement JF releases after the meeting to determine if he has bent the knee, or, hopefully, planted a bunch of markers which could be transformed into poison pills if/when Trump fails to keep his promises.
I donated to him also. I am sadly disappointed in his behavior in regard to T…p. It will be interesting to see what comes of it from both sides. Who will be the biggest liar?
Stay safe Robert. We appreciate your dedication and perspective. Words cannot express the heartfelt concern for those of you so close to this tragedy. God be with you.
Everyone, please share widely. The best way to combat insinuations and outright lies.
There’s already been a request for donations on Nextdoor for my La Habra community. Sent out at 12:13 AM and no organization mentioned. If we really want to help right now, World Central Kitchen is in LA providing water and sandwiches to firefighters and first responders. A truly legit organization.
As always, thank you for doing what you do, Robert, and be safe.
I listened to Jimmy Carter’s celebration of life today, and as much as I tried not to, I could not help but draw comparisons between this amazing human being and the embarrassing disgraceful thug who will soon occupy the white house. Everything seems tainted by this horrible orange stain.
Yes, it was a challenge not to draw comparisons.The contrast was persistent throughout the celebration of Carter’s life, including in the eulogies written years ago by Ford and Mondale and delivered by their sons.And Carter’s most pressing concerns were highlighted…wealth inequality and discrimination against women.
Sharon B and Kathy, thanks for sharing your thoughts. There is no reason to try to avoid drawing comparisons between Carter and Trump or between anyone and Trump. Your insights are right on. The eulogies were public declarations to elevate and inspire and teach our community. Jimmy Carter, God rest his soul, doesn't need our praise. We, on the other hand, need his inspiration. I am sure Biden was directing his praise of Carter's "character" at all of us and in the dark shadow of he man who has no character who will -- again! -- in a week be our President. I was reminded of my college days reading and later teaching a few times Pericles Funeral Oration in Thucydides History of the Peloponnesian War, one of the great speeches of all time, which did much to define to Athenians the character of their democracy, freedom, and citizenship.
An excerpt, " Our form of government does not enter into rivalry with the institutions of others. Our government does not copy our neighbors', but is an example to them. It is true that we are called a democracy, for the administration is in the hands of the many and not of the few. But while there exists equal justice to all and alike in their private disputes, the claim of excellence is also recognized; and when a citizen is in any way distinguished, he is preferred to the public service, not as a matter of privilege, but as the reward of merit. Neither is poverty an obstacle, but a man may benefit his country whatever the obscurity of his condition." (The short speech is viewable in English translation at http://hrlibrary.umn.edu/education/thucydides.html
Beautiful, Patrick, and inspiring. If I remember my Attic, "demos" is people and "kratos" is power. I am about to begin a week-long course to study the Bhagavad Gita, in which another hero, a conflicted one named Arjuna, sits immobile in a war chariot, about to enter a battle. There are friends and relatives of his on both sides. He doesn't know what to do. As our Old America dies in front of us, and a New America begins to arise, Arjuna's dilemma becomes horribly relevant. What are we to do? I've never actually read the Gita before, and am looking forward to finding out how Arjuna handled things.
Agree, Sharon. Trump is an embarrassing disgraceful thug. Richardson said in her newsletter that Junior Bush gave Trump the cut direct. Yet no "news" that I read has even mentioned that. Did anyone watch, and is it true? (I don't have a TV.)
Blame: T’s primary weapon of defense. The greater the fear the bigger the defense.
Flipping our perspective by closely looking at blame recognizing it as acts of weakness is empowering in the face of what needs to be done.
Blaming Newsom for his fire response is an act of cowardice. T’s got nothing. He’s barely running on fumes. The act of buying into his lies by generating feelings of defensiveness grants agreement and thereby legitimizes and solidifies the lies he speaks. It is literally handing power over to him individual by individual, act by act, day by day.
Our job in each moment is to stand in truth. In truth there is nothing to be proud of or guilty for. In truth, everyone simply does what they do. There’s no drama unless you generate drama then there is generated drama. In truth you are happy or sad, brave or fearful when you are and aren’t when you aren’t. The actions you take work when they work and don’t work when they don’t.
Calling it the way it is actually makes a difference. Be clear and straight. Be your own shot caller. Be extraordinary by being brave.
Excellent advice, Bern! "Stand in Truth!" While we must forsake our "fair fight" beliefs in the face of this existential threat, we must not forsake the truth.
Here's a quote that points to an actionable path forward:
Computer scientist and electrical engineer Lynn Conway on making the future a reality:
"If you want to change the future, start living as if you're already there."
Source: "Surfing the waves of techno-social evolution”
T has been really good at this. Can we create our own future by living into the truth of it? Living into its truth in the face of the lack of the fact of it?
This is the power we all already have. To create our own reality. To create our own context for living.
The Wright brothers would have died bicycle mechanics had they not lived into the truth of the context they created called "Heavier than air flight" BEFORE the fact of it.
It takes courage to create a future and stand in its truth when you can't prove it. When there is no evidence for it. When there is no precedent for it.
This is the difference between reporting about the past and actually creating a future.
I really like your approach, Bern. No drama, face facts, speak truth, and--most importantly--create our own reality. As we experience this global convulsion (which is really much bigger than Trump), as we face the dissolution of old ways of being (however shocking and unprecedented this is), what do we want the New America to be? As you say, "if you want to change the future, live as if you're already there."
Stay safe and you are remarkable! Writing such a coherent, positive newsletter in the face of this awful, awful man-made disaster. I am feeling physically nauseous from watching the fires and the destruction….but then this horrible orange filth spreading lies and disinformation on top of that, is just awful. I’m disgusted by the billionaires who are helping to destroy our society. Their selfishness and evil natures are difficult to realize. And SCOTUS is just gone. It’s appalling. It’s difficult to feel optimistic. The Democratic Party is slowing sinking under all of this
Pressure as the institutions and the media falls under the spell of orange hate and fascism, backed by unfathomable amount of money. I did not believe it would happen so quickly. But the country is under his spell, and the money provides the means. It’s hard for me to feel optimistic. But then I hear Jasmine Crockett speaking on CNN, and I feel there is some hope. Midterms can’t come fast enough. That smirking face at President Carter’s funeral was too much. I cannot believe this is actually happening. Karen Pence has a lot of cojones. And I’m glad W snubbed him.
But where was bush during the election? Nicole Wallace, who worked in bush’s administration, repeatedly pleaded and pleaded with him to speak out against trump. Doubt it would have made a difference in the outcome, but he showed his true character yet again.
Perhaps you are right, Elizabeth. Though for whatever Obama's intention, sadly it's getting a great deal of media attention. And it's not in the way that we would hope. A friend, who often suggests I ought to step away from the barage of Trump's antics, was quick to point out Obama's laughter with him at the funeral. It's disappointing for me, not only that it happened but how it's being used to the benefit of the disgraceful one.
I read an article online that included a professional lip reader’s translation of some of the Trump Obama exchange. Obama may have been laughing at rather than with Trump. Either way, I agree that the optics were disappointing
Kathy, I feel your pain. Scotus is indeed gone. Let's notice that the Democratic Party too is gone. We're left with people like Crockett, maybe AOC, Newsome, Pritzger maybe. I think we have to get done with being Democrats and become perhaps just "citizens." Or progressive citizens. Something new that shakes the fear, complacency, and relatively minor but still extant corruption of the old order (the Democratic Party) like dust off our shoes. Maybe we can form a Carter Party. Wouldn't that be an amazing and fitting carrying-forward of his legacy.
The horrific news about the devastating firestorms is overshadowing the small bit of good news that trump will finally see some measure of accountability today. I will not watch any coverage of the events of January 20, so let January 10 be trump's inauguration. I'll be celebrating it tonight. Who's with me?
WHEW! I'm really relieved to hear you and your family are safe! I am so grateful to be subscribed to your sub stack because of all the content you open up to everyone. I would not know so much if you didn't write about LA and the politics down there. You save us so much research by explaining the truth of what has been said about the water and the hydrants and pumps. THANK YOU Robert!
Robert, I am glad you and Jill are still safe. May that safety continue!
I was so moved by the funeral for President Carter and all the eulogies. Lessons to be learned on how to live. When Walter Mondale’s son read, “We told the truth, we obeyed the law, and we kept the peace.” I thought wouldthat the incoming administration would heed these words!
Good (not really)morning Robert. Have been a statistic since about 3:00 AM Wednesday morning. Sorry to be a downer. We lost everything. Running back to Pasadena to get claims filed. Ins co. closed for funeral. Rental house will be hard to find, of course.
Ransom, Sorry to hear of your loss, of course. Is there anything we who have become the Hubbell Community can do to help our comrades who have lost everything. There are pitfalls in ad hoc collaboration in charity, to be sure. But there are a lot of smart experienced people in this community. Are there needs that we can address in reaching out in a collaborative way?
What a sad joke Senator Unfetteredman has become. It's one thing to resist the urge to mount an opposition at all costs, breaking off all bridges between government and opposition but going down to Mar-a-Lago is akin to kissing the ring of the lowlife-elect.
And he will get nothing to show for. The lowlife and his posse will treat him as just another dunce in their bag. A quote from Joseph Goebbels comes to mind: "The big joke on democracy,” he observed, “is that it gives its mortal enemies the means to its own destruction.”
Thus ends a very interesting piece in The Atlantic, pointing at eerie and sobering parallels between the US today and Germany in the 30s.
Stefan, I also read this piece in The Atlantic. It is a chilling article that is indeed eerily parallel to our country today, recounting the period when Hitler became Chancellor of Germany in 1933 and then he placed Herman Goring and Joseph Goebbels in key positions in his cabinet, eventually leading to the demise of the Weimar Republic. Moreover, quotes from Hitler during that time brought out in that article mirror what has come out almost verbatim from the about-to-be-truly-convicted felon’s mouth. Rampant lies, disinformation and hate spawned fear in the German people who handed over their democratic freedoms without much of a whimper to a dictator in just 53 days! “History doesn’t repeat itself, but it often rhymes.” (Mark Twain) Scary.
I hear you, Judith. I wrote to John Fetterman's team earlier in the week in response to an email I received that day. I then received a return message that his campaign is no longer monitoring that email. On today's reading of the newsletter, I was reminded to follow up. For anyone else who may be interested, following are ways to contact Fetterman's office: a) by calling the DC office - 202.224.4254; and b) by writing to him at Fetterman.senate.gov
Robert, I hope that your home continues to stay safe and you are able to get away to cleaner air if you need to. I also want to thank you for addressing the misinformation that is being spread.
In November, a large barn across the street from me house in Germany burned in the night. My neighbors and I were scared that we would lose our homes. What remained after the firefighters worked all night and into the next afternoon, was the smell of smoke and burned wood in our air. That smell lasted for at least 2 weeks even though there were several days of rain.
In Germany daily airing of rooms is standard no matter what the temperature, but I could not do this during that time. I am glad to say that recently having remodeled to increase the energy efficiency, showed that the airtight windows and insulation protected my indoor air. The firemen had told us to immediately close all doors and windows and stay inside. I say all this to say, if a single large barn had our community air stinking for over 2 weeks, I cannot imagine what the air quality is like in Los Angeles right now and for a while.
My friends in LA live in Santa Monica, Glassell Park and Silver Valley. I have heard from the first two and they have evacuated. We are waiting to hear from our Silver Valley friends.
Thank you, Robert, for your encouragement to share personal stories of engagement in the fight. And a special thanks to you for being the ultimate role model for all of us. Your daily consistency in writing a newsletter that must take many hours each day is remarkable and inspiring. Even more so as your family copes with the tragic LA fires which are very close to your home. I know I speak for many in expressing deep appreciation to you, and to Jill, for helping keep us all informed and motivated in these difficult times.
For my part, ever since the election loss, I have managed my stress, anxiety and disappointment by staying focused on the fight. I lead an Indivisible chapter, Indivisible Marin, and I am working, with a wonderful team of leaders, to assess and then implement programs, actions and gatherings through which our members can continue to have impact toward our mission - to take action to help build a more just, caring and inclusive America.
This last week has been harder to focus as I am worried about my daughter and her family, including a newborn and toddler, who have evacuated from their home not far from you. But I still find that focusing on the work helps me cope and gives me a sense of purpose in these very scary and difficult times.
I hope some readers here may find a bit of encouragement in my comments. We are all in this fight together. All of the great mass movements to effect social change throughout the course of history have been waged over decades. And the operative word in mass movement is mass. Each of us, as an individual, add to the power of the collective movement with each action, however small that we take. Here are two of my favorite quotes that help keep me going:
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Mead
"The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice." - Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Thank you, Robert. You are so very kind. Apart from the worry about their home, they are doing ok. They have a network of friends who are standing by to take them in. They decided on a hotel for last night but will relocate today or tomorrow if needed. Again, my deepest thanks!
Count me amazed, Robert, at your ability to stay focused amid the firestorms that are constantly bombarding you and your family.
I can't remember whose eulogy pointed this out about our 39th President yesterday, but he put things in perspective when he pointed out that aside from Jimmy Carter's four years as Governor and four years as President, that left 92 years of his life to account for. A life in service to all the people across the globe, that's who he was.
Someone reminded me of Timothy Snyder's Lesson #18 for fighting tyranny: Be calm when the unthinkable arrives. For that and more, we can count on Robert! Incoming administration, not so much. But we will stay calm and, as Mister Rogers advised, "Look for the helpers." Our local communities are filled with them.
Well, the incoming administration is part of the unthinkable arriving.
Beautiful. Thank you so much!
His grandson Jason said that. His eulogy was so special, his love for his grandparents so evident. Jason is a wonderful speaker and did his Paw Paw proud!
Jason's eulogy was so heartfelt. A fine young man and a testament to the Carter family values
Jason Carter's remarks about his grandfather were inspiring. He is an excellent speaker! In fact, I thought all the speakers were terrific. I loved that Steve Ford and Ted Mondale read so well the eulogies their fathers had prepared years ago. But I truly felt Jason was the most heartfelt in its delivery. It was a beautiful service! (I'm wondering if our incoming president was even taking in all the wonderful words about integrity, honesty, compassion, or the importance of each individual--and the gross inequality of wealth--I doubt he was listening).
Those words are beyond the convicted felon’s comprehension
I'm glad to hear all these comments. I watched the funeral in Plains but have not yet watched the service you are all commenting on. I appreciate the link. Thanks.
Of course he wasn’t listening! It wasn’t about him.
Would like to know what transpired between he and Obama.
According to a video I saw, tRump was sleeping.
I heard that Gerald Ford’s son spoke a the funeral as well. Apparently while Carter and Ford had a most unpleasant presidential campaign, they became fast friends and agreed to eulogize the other should that person pass first. This was an era of most respectable and respectful people who were President (save for Nixon), now sadly lost because of the incoming person who could never, ever utter a kind word towards another president. Except himself.
I was about to write something so similar! Robert, you are indefatigable! Thanks Lynell for writing this.
Agreed. Your ability to carry on —and so well — is awe-inspiring.
Thank you for your work and your example.
His grandson Jason Carter, head of the Carter Center, included that tidbit in his eulogy - which had me laughing with teary eyes.
In case Robert's dramatic sunset photo of a Los Angeles smoke plume causes any worry, the photo is of one of the newer fires, the Kenneth Fire, which was about 20 miles away, had winds blowing south (not east toward Robert's house), and was relatively quickly prevented from damaging nearby residences. (I drove to a high point in the area and viewed 3 major fires: Palisades, Eaton, and Kenneth.)
World Central Kitchen and the Red Cross are helping firefighters and residents.
The devastation is horrible for so many and distressful for all of us.
Many thanks, Ellie, for the clarification. Also, pointing us in the direction of WCK and the Red Cross where our donations can be sent.
The grit, endurance, skill, and work of the firefighters is awe-inspiring.
https://www.today.com/news/climate/california-fires-how-to-help-rcna186875
I am deeply upset by Fetterman’s words and actions. I donated more than I usually do to candidates during his campaign, I was overjoyed by his success, and I have a small bumper sticker of his on my car. AND I’M A LIFE-LONG RESIDENT OF NEW YORK. I need now to wait for warmer weather to remove it. It is a small, round sticker, so I was able to use a black Sharpie and eradicate the text. What a waste.
Be well all. Wash your hands to keep the Norovirus away. If you have a backyard bird feeder, wash your hands just as thoroughly.
I commented on another substack that Fetterman may switch his party affiliation to GOP or Independent. He may be this Congress's Manchin or Sinema.
Very disappointed in John Fetterman, whose performative difference from "normal" politicians and renegade attitudes shadowed forth a kind of arrogance that we are know seeing attractive to Trump and Republicans. His advice to "stop freaking out" is standard macho male dismissiveness, and what we all, whatever our gender identification have been hearing from friends and adversaries since before the election. He seems to be saying, "Well, come down there, Little Missy. Don't get your panties in an uproar. Just let big John talk to the scary man in Mar-a-Lago." Senator Fetterman is punching above his weight against Trump who has had years of conning saps like Fetterman is showing himself to be. Let's let him know that WE take Trump seriously and our opposition and resistance is not an emotional weakness but a considered response to a threat to our country and the people of Pennsylvania and he better get used to that and adjust his thinking once he's seen the inside of the palace.
Love your words here, Patrick. As an American female, I am so very often told just that--not to "get my panties in an uproar." It crushes my spirit every time (and then I rally it back up again). ugh.
Hold your fire, everyone. Maybe Senator Fetterman knows what he’s doing … in a good way. Wait for the outcomes.
Anyhow, neither waiting nor criticizing will change the outcomes of Senator Fetterman’s endeavors.
Perfectly said. He seems pretty arrogant and not too smart. Exactly Trump’s type. PA Dems need to start looking for guy to primary him. Pretty sure most folks who voted Republican last election, will be fed up after they taste the reality of Republicans’ policies.
Sorry, typed "come down" when I meant "calm down". Bad proofing on my part. I apologize.
Beginning to wonder if his state of mind is being affected by his stroke. My father had a what was actually a massive stroke at 74 after he struck his head from a fall, and it affected him in various, often surprising ways. But it was a gradual change that affected his temperament, his thinking, his cognitive abilities, and finally his physical abilities. Ultimately, stroke slowly turned a physically strong and active man into a 2-yr old child mentally and physically by the time of his death 12-yrs later. I heard similar stories by people whose family/friends had strokes when they were much younger than my father. I really hope his doctors are paying attention.
That must have been unbelievably difficult for your dad, for you, and for all your family. And so very heartbreaking.
Dad had it easier than the rest of us. It was very gradual, and, oddly, because of the change in his temperament, it was easier to handle than I was afraid it might be. Mom always said she would die first, and my response invariably was "don't you dare" because she had a calmer temperament than Dad. Yet, oddly, the changes were gradual and he could to some extent see it (as he realized he couldn't handle writing checks for the bills), and he accepted it, even realizing he couldn't drive any more. And as I accepted I had an 80-yr-old child, it became much easier to deal with him, and for the most part he was much calmer than he been. Mom, who did die first, grew harder to handle as her health deteriorated and she had some TIA strokes that led to not fun symptoms like "sundowners" - a quaint euphemism for Alzheimer's. She knew she was declining and often reacted violently for the last three years of her life. Strokes are no fun to deal with, rather, their aftereffects aren't fun, and can be unpredictable.
And thank you.
I am familiar with what you write about and every situation has its own particular challenges. My sister and I began saying, “We are constantly readjusting to the ever-changing new normal.” Exhausting and heartbreaking. Take good care.
Exhaustion exists, and it is hard to recover from it - I know as people who've never lived with it can't. When it's over , grieve, move on, but don't make any large immediate changes - that can break you.
Heartbreaking? It depends on how you deal with the changes. You have to accept them, and deal only with the changes. The person you love has entered a new phase in life. Accept it. Didn't matter to me that Dad called me his mother's name, his long dead brother's name or my sister's name. Didn't matter that he didn't remember his wife of 50 years or my name, but remembered our little chihuahua's name when we stepped into the house. Laugh about it as I did (and now fondly remember it 10 years later). Think of it this way - just as the toddler in your house isn't the same as the teenager she grew up to be, your loved one isn't the same as the person you remember when you were younger. Mom was harder as she was her old self for long stretches before turning into an angry and violent woman. But in the end, when her body was shutting down, she turned back into the sweet woman I loved when I was a child.
And take care of yourself as much as you can.
Intriguing. Thank you for sharing this painful story.
This happened to me in Arizona several years ago with that turncoat, KrystenKystenKyrstin-whatever-Sinema. She got the endorsement of my local Democrats of the Red Rocks, so I voted for her. I called her office to inquire how she was planning to vote on some issue, identifying myself as a voter/supporter/Democrat. The uneducated person who answered the phone actually said these unintelligible words to me: "I am not legally inclined to answer you." Sinema then turned coat, became an "independent," and voted with MAGA nuts on many issues. She spent her years in the Senate richly feathering her own nest, and was last heard of a month ago touring Europe for no reason, using her campaign war chest and whatever bribes she's been able to extort from corporations in her role (performance?) as a U.S. senator. Now she will retire to wherever MAGA nuts retire and live on her ill-gotten wealth and create more havoc in some sphere yet to be identified. Beware her ilk. Beware Fetterman. And who is that new Democrat who's going around saying RFKJR is "not so bad?" Beware him too.
“… not so bad” — compared to *what*?
That would be so disheartening if he became a Manchin or a Sinema-we had such high hopes for him- pray that he will continue to be on our side🙏🏻
He's literally this new Senates's Manchin. That said, I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Just like Manchin may have been the only Democrat to win a statewide race in WV in the last 3 decades, Fetterman may be the same type of Democrat that is needed to win in PA for the next decade. We honestly just don't know yet. He seems to still support Biden's agenda and give his vote when necessary for everything. Also him having face time with Trump may make him an important voice and critic going forward. Let's see how it plays out. He may also in the future become a Republican, we genuinely don't know lol, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed, at the end of the day Democrats need to be seen as the adults and be able to win elections. If Fetterman and other Dems do that, I'm willing to hold my nose and put up with some performative stuff as long as their votes and policies align with mine 80% of the time.
Good observation.
Beware letting his political “friends” (Dems) *issing him off.
Let Fetterman be himself. Others can’t stop that, and attacking him may change his mind about who are his genuine friends.
Besides, attacking him for holding non-standard opinions is disrespectful.
I believe that the stroke did more harm than we were led to believe. I too worked on his campaign from NY.
I agree and you couple this behavior with that weird inappropriate dressing, I think the guy has some brain damage going on.
Let’s write Fetterman to let him know that he is proving himself naive. That has been a problem for the Democrats for several decades. John, it is a vain jester that served no good end. Please rethink your approach. We and you are dealing with an ego with no boundaries, no moral compass and by now a flawed sense of self-worth above all citizens. He is unrepentant and full throttle evil. 😈 Please, if you meet him do not leave by telling your constituents it was a productive meeting. You’ll surely choke on those words in due time.
I too purchased a sticker from the Fetterman campaign and I never received delivery. Perhaps that was a bit of luck.
But I have a different take on Fetterman's willingness to meet with Trump. JF most certainly knows that Trump will lie about everything. He almost certainly knows that Trump will not deliver on any promises that he makes that might help ameliorate Pennsylvanians lunch bucket issues. But JF also knows that PA went for Trump and dumped Sen. Casey, as centrist a Democrat one could wish for. If PA is to come back into the D column in '26 and/or '28, and if JF himself (or another Dem candidate) is to be elected next time up, then he must be able to talk to those non-MAGA voters in PA and convince them he tried to reach out and do their business with Trump. If Trump turns his back, forgets them, or doesn't follow through on his promises. JF will have good talking points when he reaches out to voters. So, for now, I give JF the benefit of the doubt and even applaud the move as smart politics. We'll need to listen closely to the statement JF releases after the meeting to determine if he has bent the knee, or, hopefully, planted a bunch of markers which could be transformed into poison pills if/when Trump fails to keep his promises.
I donated to him also. I am sadly disappointed in his behavior in regard to T…p. It will be interesting to see what comes of it from both sides. Who will be the biggest liar?
Stay safe Robert. We appreciate your dedication and perspective. Words cannot express the heartfelt concern for those of you so close to this tragedy. God be with you.
Thank you, Robert. Stay safe.
Everyone, please share widely. The best way to combat insinuations and outright lies.
There’s already been a request for donations on Nextdoor for my La Habra community. Sent out at 12:13 AM and no organization mentioned. If we really want to help right now, World Central Kitchen is in LA providing water and sandwiches to firefighters and first responders. A truly legit organization.
I donated to WCK last night.
(I grew up in La Habra!)
As always, thank you for doing what you do, Robert, and be safe.
I listened to Jimmy Carter’s celebration of life today, and as much as I tried not to, I could not help but draw comparisons between this amazing human being and the embarrassing disgraceful thug who will soon occupy the white house. Everything seems tainted by this horrible orange stain.
Yes, it was a challenge not to draw comparisons.The contrast was persistent throughout the celebration of Carter’s life, including in the eulogies written years ago by Ford and Mondale and delivered by their sons.And Carter’s most pressing concerns were highlighted…wealth inequality and discrimination against women.
Sharon B and Kathy, thanks for sharing your thoughts. There is no reason to try to avoid drawing comparisons between Carter and Trump or between anyone and Trump. Your insights are right on. The eulogies were public declarations to elevate and inspire and teach our community. Jimmy Carter, God rest his soul, doesn't need our praise. We, on the other hand, need his inspiration. I am sure Biden was directing his praise of Carter's "character" at all of us and in the dark shadow of he man who has no character who will -- again! -- in a week be our President. I was reminded of my college days reading and later teaching a few times Pericles Funeral Oration in Thucydides History of the Peloponnesian War, one of the great speeches of all time, which did much to define to Athenians the character of their democracy, freedom, and citizenship.
An excerpt, " Our form of government does not enter into rivalry with the institutions of others. Our government does not copy our neighbors', but is an example to them. It is true that we are called a democracy, for the administration is in the hands of the many and not of the few. But while there exists equal justice to all and alike in their private disputes, the claim of excellence is also recognized; and when a citizen is in any way distinguished, he is preferred to the public service, not as a matter of privilege, but as the reward of merit. Neither is poverty an obstacle, but a man may benefit his country whatever the obscurity of his condition." (The short speech is viewable in English translation at http://hrlibrary.umn.edu/education/thucydides.html
and the Wikipedia article gives a quick refresher. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pericles_Funeral_Oration)
Beautiful, Patrick, and inspiring. If I remember my Attic, "demos" is people and "kratos" is power. I am about to begin a week-long course to study the Bhagavad Gita, in which another hero, a conflicted one named Arjuna, sits immobile in a war chariot, about to enter a battle. There are friends and relatives of his on both sides. He doesn't know what to do. As our Old America dies in front of us, and a New America begins to arise, Arjuna's dilemma becomes horribly relevant. What are we to do? I've never actually read the Gita before, and am looking forward to finding out how Arjuna handled things.
“ We, on the other hand, need his inspiration.”
Thank you, Patrick, for this much needed perspective!
I, too, loved that speech when I was introduced to it in college. Thanks for the reminder.
Agree, Sharon. Trump is an embarrassing disgraceful thug. Richardson said in her newsletter that Junior Bush gave Trump the cut direct. Yet no "news" that I read has even mentioned that. Did anyone watch, and is it true? (I don't have a TV.)
Blame: T’s primary weapon of defense. The greater the fear the bigger the defense.
Flipping our perspective by closely looking at blame recognizing it as acts of weakness is empowering in the face of what needs to be done.
Blaming Newsom for his fire response is an act of cowardice. T’s got nothing. He’s barely running on fumes. The act of buying into his lies by generating feelings of defensiveness grants agreement and thereby legitimizes and solidifies the lies he speaks. It is literally handing power over to him individual by individual, act by act, day by day.
Our job in each moment is to stand in truth. In truth there is nothing to be proud of or guilty for. In truth, everyone simply does what they do. There’s no drama unless you generate drama then there is generated drama. In truth you are happy or sad, brave or fearful when you are and aren’t when you aren’t. The actions you take work when they work and don’t work when they don’t.
Calling it the way it is actually makes a difference. Be clear and straight. Be your own shot caller. Be extraordinary by being brave.
Excellent advice, Bern! "Stand in Truth!" While we must forsake our "fair fight" beliefs in the face of this existential threat, we must not forsake the truth.
Here's a quote that points to an actionable path forward:
Computer scientist and electrical engineer Lynn Conway on making the future a reality:
"If you want to change the future, start living as if you're already there."
Source: "Surfing the waves of techno-social evolution”
T has been really good at this. Can we create our own future by living into the truth of it? Living into its truth in the face of the lack of the fact of it?
This is the power we all already have. To create our own reality. To create our own context for living.
The Wright brothers would have died bicycle mechanics had they not lived into the truth of the context they created called "Heavier than air flight" BEFORE the fact of it.
It takes courage to create a future and stand in its truth when you can't prove it. When there is no evidence for it. When there is no precedent for it.
This is the difference between reporting about the past and actually creating a future.
I really like your approach, Bern. No drama, face facts, speak truth, and--most importantly--create our own reality. As we experience this global convulsion (which is really much bigger than Trump), as we face the dissolution of old ways of being (however shocking and unprecedented this is), what do we want the New America to be? As you say, "if you want to change the future, live as if you're already there."
love "theres no drama unless you generate drama."
Stay safe and you are remarkable! Writing such a coherent, positive newsletter in the face of this awful, awful man-made disaster. I am feeling physically nauseous from watching the fires and the destruction….but then this horrible orange filth spreading lies and disinformation on top of that, is just awful. I’m disgusted by the billionaires who are helping to destroy our society. Their selfishness and evil natures are difficult to realize. And SCOTUS is just gone. It’s appalling. It’s difficult to feel optimistic. The Democratic Party is slowing sinking under all of this
Pressure as the institutions and the media falls under the spell of orange hate and fascism, backed by unfathomable amount of money. I did not believe it would happen so quickly. But the country is under his spell, and the money provides the means. It’s hard for me to feel optimistic. But then I hear Jasmine Crockett speaking on CNN, and I feel there is some hope. Midterms can’t come fast enough. That smirking face at President Carter’s funeral was too much. I cannot believe this is actually happening. Karen Pence has a lot of cojones. And I’m glad W snubbed him.
But where was bush during the election? Nicole Wallace, who worked in bush’s administration, repeatedly pleaded and pleaded with him to speak out against trump. Doubt it would have made a difference in the outcome, but he showed his true character yet again.
I was also disgusted with Obama for sharing a laugh with him.
I think Obama drew the short straw and had to babysit trump so he wouldn’t make President Carter’s funeral all about him.
Perhaps you are right, Elizabeth. Though for whatever Obama's intention, sadly it's getting a great deal of media attention. And it's not in the way that we would hope. A friend, who often suggests I ought to step away from the barage of Trump's antics, was quick to point out Obama's laughter with him at the funeral. It's disappointing for me, not only that it happened but how it's being used to the benefit of the disgraceful one.
I read an article online that included a professional lip reader’s translation of some of the Trump Obama exchange. Obama may have been laughing at rather than with Trump. Either way, I agree that the optics were disappointing
They sit in order of their presidencies. But Obama needs shaming.
I hope that Michelle gave him an earful.
Whatever the circumstances the optics of sharing a laugh with Trump were awful.
I think Obama was probably laughing at him, not with him.
He was literally baby-sitting the orange child.
Kathy, I feel your pain. Scotus is indeed gone. Let's notice that the Democratic Party too is gone. We're left with people like Crockett, maybe AOC, Newsome, Pritzger maybe. I think we have to get done with being Democrats and become perhaps just "citizens." Or progressive citizens. Something new that shakes the fear, complacency, and relatively minor but still extant corruption of the old order (the Democratic Party) like dust off our shoes. Maybe we can form a Carter Party. Wouldn't that be an amazing and fitting carrying-forward of his legacy.
The horrific news about the devastating firestorms is overshadowing the small bit of good news that trump will finally see some measure of accountability today. I will not watch any coverage of the events of January 20, so let January 10 be trump's inauguration. I'll be celebrating it tonight. Who's with me?
January 10, Trump's inauguration into his new status: officially convicted felon! Love it. Let's make it a national holiday.
Yes, I, too, will raise a glass of my nightly libation.
On January 29th, my friends and I will gather to mourn and distract, not to celebrate.
I am with you Bob Morgan.
WHEW! I'm really relieved to hear you and your family are safe! I am so grateful to be subscribed to your sub stack because of all the content you open up to everyone. I would not know so much if you didn't write about LA and the politics down there. You save us so much research by explaining the truth of what has been said about the water and the hydrants and pumps. THANK YOU Robert!
Robert, I am glad you and Jill are still safe. May that safety continue!
I was so moved by the funeral for President Carter and all the eulogies. Lessons to be learned on how to live. When Walter Mondale’s son read, “We told the truth, we obeyed the law, and we kept the peace.” I thought wouldthat the incoming administration would heed these words!
Good (not really)morning Robert. Have been a statistic since about 3:00 AM Wednesday morning. Sorry to be a downer. We lost everything. Running back to Pasadena to get claims filed. Ins co. closed for funeral. Rental house will be hard to find, of course.
Stay safe, all.
So sorry to hear that you lost your home. Email me at rhubbell@outlook.com when you have a chance. Would like to help. .
So very sorry for your great loss! Sending a virtual hug to you and your family. 💙
Ransom, Sorry to hear of your loss, of course. Is there anything we who have become the Hubbell Community can do to help our comrades who have lost everything. There are pitfalls in ad hoc collaboration in charity, to be sure. But there are a lot of smart experienced people in this community. Are there needs that we can address in reaching out in a collaborative way?
So, so sorry to hear this, Ransom Rideout.
I cannot fathom the depth of pain from your loss. My words are pitifully inadequate. May you be safe from all danger and harm
So very sorry for your immense loss.
Oh, no, so sad for your situation, glad you are safe😢☺️.
Oh, I am so very sorry to hear this. Sending hugs and good vibes your way. Good luck in your efforts.
What a sad joke Senator Unfetteredman has become. It's one thing to resist the urge to mount an opposition at all costs, breaking off all bridges between government and opposition but going down to Mar-a-Lago is akin to kissing the ring of the lowlife-elect.
And he will get nothing to show for. The lowlife and his posse will treat him as just another dunce in their bag. A quote from Joseph Goebbels comes to mind: "The big joke on democracy,” he observed, “is that it gives its mortal enemies the means to its own destruction.”
Thus ends a very interesting piece in The Atlantic, pointing at eerie and sobering parallels between the US today and Germany in the 30s.
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2025/01/hitler-germany-constitution-authoritarianism/681233/
Stefan, I also read this piece in The Atlantic. It is a chilling article that is indeed eerily parallel to our country today, recounting the period when Hitler became Chancellor of Germany in 1933 and then he placed Herman Goring and Joseph Goebbels in key positions in his cabinet, eventually leading to the demise of the Weimar Republic. Moreover, quotes from Hitler during that time brought out in that article mirror what has come out almost verbatim from the about-to-be-truly-convicted felon’s mouth. Rampant lies, disinformation and hate spawned fear in the German people who handed over their democratic freedoms without much of a whimper to a dictator in just 53 days! “History doesn’t repeat itself, but it often rhymes.” (Mark Twain) Scary.
I’m shocked and betrayed by Fetterman as should everyone who supported him in PA and, like me, from beyond. Stay safe Robert!
I hear you, Judith. I wrote to John Fetterman's team earlier in the week in response to an email I received that day. I then received a return message that his campaign is no longer monitoring that email. On today's reading of the newsletter, I was reminded to follow up. For anyone else who may be interested, following are ways to contact Fetterman's office: a) by calling the DC office - 202.224.4254; and b) by writing to him at Fetterman.senate.gov
I have done both.
Robert, I hope that your home continues to stay safe and you are able to get away to cleaner air if you need to. I also want to thank you for addressing the misinformation that is being spread.
In November, a large barn across the street from me house in Germany burned in the night. My neighbors and I were scared that we would lose our homes. What remained after the firefighters worked all night and into the next afternoon, was the smell of smoke and burned wood in our air. That smell lasted for at least 2 weeks even though there were several days of rain.
In Germany daily airing of rooms is standard no matter what the temperature, but I could not do this during that time. I am glad to say that recently having remodeled to increase the energy efficiency, showed that the airtight windows and insulation protected my indoor air. The firemen had told us to immediately close all doors and windows and stay inside. I say all this to say, if a single large barn had our community air stinking for over 2 weeks, I cannot imagine what the air quality is like in Los Angeles right now and for a while.
My friends in LA live in Santa Monica, Glassell Park and Silver Valley. I have heard from the first two and they have evacuated. We are waiting to hear from our Silver Valley friends.
Thank you, Robert, for your encouragement to share personal stories of engagement in the fight. And a special thanks to you for being the ultimate role model for all of us. Your daily consistency in writing a newsletter that must take many hours each day is remarkable and inspiring. Even more so as your family copes with the tragic LA fires which are very close to your home. I know I speak for many in expressing deep appreciation to you, and to Jill, for helping keep us all informed and motivated in these difficult times.
For my part, ever since the election loss, I have managed my stress, anxiety and disappointment by staying focused on the fight. I lead an Indivisible chapter, Indivisible Marin, and I am working, with a wonderful team of leaders, to assess and then implement programs, actions and gatherings through which our members can continue to have impact toward our mission - to take action to help build a more just, caring and inclusive America.
This last week has been harder to focus as I am worried about my daughter and her family, including a newborn and toddler, who have evacuated from their home not far from you. But I still find that focusing on the work helps me cope and gives me a sense of purpose in these very scary and difficult times.
I hope some readers here may find a bit of encouragement in my comments. We are all in this fight together. All of the great mass movements to effect social change throughout the course of history have been waged over decades. And the operative word in mass movement is mass. Each of us, as an individual, add to the power of the collective movement with each action, however small that we take. Here are two of my favorite quotes that help keep me going:
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Mead
"The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice." - Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Sending love to all. 💙
Have your daughter email me at rhubbell@outlook.com. I would like to help.
Thank you, Robert. You are so very kind. Apart from the worry about their home, they are doing ok. They have a network of friends who are standing by to take them in. They decided on a hotel for last night but will relocate today or tomorrow if needed. Again, my deepest thanks!